Saturday mornings. Cold cereal and Scooby Doo. How many parents
started out our childhood weekends with this simple ritual? The
trick was to wake up early enough to see all of the Saturday
morning cartoons because after about 10 am, the children's
programming was over until Sunday night's Wonderful World of
Disney show came on.
My kids also like to get up on Saturday morning and watch
cartoons. And on Sunday, and Monday, and Tuesday. You know the
rest. While I had only a couple of channels to choose from, my
kids have access to 24 hour children's programming on several
channels, compliments of cable television. If you have a
satellite tv dish, your children have access to even more
programming.
More is better, right? Well, not always. With this abundance of
television stations, we need to remember that not all television
programming is appropriate for all audiences.
There are many parents and grandparents who had the viewpoint
that if it was a cartoon show the kids were watching, it was ok.
Cartoon violence? Well, who hasn't seen that coyote catch an
anvil with his head for the umpteenth time?
The fact of the matter is, when many parents were growing up,
with our limited television choices, a little cartoon violence
didn't seem to make too much of a difference. Now our kids can
choose to watch cartoon violence 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
And it isn't just anvils dropping out of the clear blue sky
anymore.
What kind of violence exists in the cartoons our kids
are watching? No, Scooby Doo doesn't go into a rabid rage and
maul Shaggy when there are no more Scooby Snacks. But kid's
shows have battles, fights, explosions and characters making
threats to injure or kill each other. And our kids are choosing
to watch this programming over and over again.
So how can we help our kids to make better choices? Most
families are unwilling to go cold turkey and give up all
television programming, although I give KUDOS to those that are
brave enough to do it. You've heard it before - limit what your
kids are watching. But I'd like to add one more piece of advice:
teach your children how to choose programs that are acceptable
to you and your family's values. This seems to be the piece that
is missing from most articles I read today on the issue of
television viewing and children.
How do we do this? As you know, most television shows now carry
a rating to give you an idea of the type of content (TV-Y,
TV-Y7, TV-G, TV-PG, TV-14 and TV-MA). Content descriptors have
also been added to this system to give you additional
information. These descriptors indicate the presence of
suggestive dialogue (D), sexual behavior (S), foul language (L),
or violence (V). These ratings can be used as a starting point
for determining if a television show is appropriate for your
child or family.
Be careful not to pick television shows based solely on the TV
ratings system. A recent study has shown inconsistency in
ratings that television networks place on their shows. Some do
not use the additional content descriptors (D, S, L and V) in
their ratings at all. What this means is that you may be
watching a show rated TV-G and then you hear some foul language.
If the rating had indicated this with the "L" description, at least you would have been prepared for it.
So what's the best way to ensure that your kids are watching
shows that meet your standards? Well, parents, we are going to
have to take some time and actually pay attention to what is on
the stations your kids are watching! Yes, that means actually
sitting down and enduring an episode or two of an animated
sponge or the latest teeny bopper life story.
You can also talk to other friends and family about what their
kids watch and why. Ask the parents if they have watched the
shows their children watch. You will be surprised at how many
parents really don't pay that much attention to the content of
their children's viewing choices. They have the attitude that if
it is on XYZ Children's Network, then it must be fine. Even
within the children's networks, shows are geared towards a
specific audience. Do you really want your 6 year old to watch a
show that is a teen version of a soap opera?
Then - don't skip this one - talk with your kids about the shows
they are watching. Discuss the content and if it is a show you
are not going to permit them to watch, explain your reasons. You
do not have to defend your choice, you are the parent after all,
but just let them know why it is inappropriate.
Limit the amount of television your children watch each day. The
American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that parents limit a
child's use of TV, movies, and video and computer games to no
more than 1 or 2 hours per day. This will also encourage them to
make different choices about their television activities. Do
they really want to watch this rerun for the 15th time or would
they rather wait and watch something new?
Take the time to teach your children how to make better choices
with their electronic entertainment. It's a skill that they will
carry with them past the next Saturday morning.
About the author:
Lisa Workman is the author of Tokens for TV: A Sensible Approach
to Balancing Television, Video Game and Computer Activities. For
more information email lisa@tvtokens.com or visit her website at www.tvtokens.com.
Lisa Workman has provided editing and business services for over
26 years. She has experience in the fields of education,
computer software training, health care, marketing, and public
relations. In addition to her editing and virtual assistant
services, she currently teaches computer skills at a local
elementary school.